I want you to think about this statement. Are you living your life on your own terms? Is someone dictating you in your life, on where you should be; what you should do; where you should go; how you should live your life? If you have answered "YES" to any of these questions, then the sad truth, is that you have no excuses for being unhappy. You should be in control of your life, where you make decisions on your own. If in a relationship, should be made collectively; if a child/young adult - should be involved in creating decisions that can benefit all parties involved, and also include what you have to do, to take complete control, over all that you do.