Think about who you are, and get familiar with your identity of that of your own, and how others perceive you. Now, this does not mean what others say or feel DEFINES who you are but how you are perceived. Is this a reflection of whom you want to display as you, and if so, next question is...who are you becoming? It is good to reflect and learn from our past, however, it is important to LIVE in the present, but always keep your eyes on the prize, of who you are BECOMING. Make sure that you are aligned both inside and out and that your reflection is that of YOU, not who/what others think, NOR not what you WANT. Be authentic, genuine and pure all around, and stay grounded.